Better to admit, “I am wrong” and be right than to insist,
“I am right” and stay wrong by Chaitanya Charan Das Based on Bhagavad Gita
Chapter 02
The Bhagavad-gita begins with Arjuna deciding to not fight
in the upcoming war (01.46). Yet given the grave consequences of either
decision – to fight or not – he soon had second thoughts and ended up confused
(02.06).
Like Arjuna, we are all prone to commit mistakes in
assessing situations. After all, we are limited creatures who have limited
information about things and have limited intelligence to analyze whatever information
we have. So we may arrive at mistaken positions, but that is not as problematic
as making those positions a prestige issue. Because then we become goaded by
the egoistic dogma, “It’s my opinion and I must be right,” and can’t look at
the situation objectively. We either subconsciously neglect or consciously
relegate things that problematize our position. When we are ego-driven, even if
we somehow prove that our position is right, we end up winning the battle, but
losing the war – our ego grows, but our wisdom doesn’t.
When we are ego-driven, even if we somehow prove that our
position is right, we end up winning the battle, but losing the war – our ego
grows, but our wisdom doesn’t.
Instead, we can see re-evaluating our positions as growth
opportunities. By focusing on determining what is right, we grow in wisdom when
we are wrong – and when we are right. If we are wrong, we learn what is right
and why. And if we are right, we get a clearer, sounder, non-egoistic
understanding of why we are right.
For seeking the truth non-egoistically, we can get
inspiration from Arjuna’s example. He admitted to being confused and sought
guidance from Krishna (02.07). That he submitted thus in public view between
the two armies indicates that he was concerned not about looking intelligent,
but about becoming intelligent. By keeping his priorities straight, he got
enlightened and empowered with Gita wisdom (18.73).
By similarly putting enlightenment above the ego, we too can
become empowered with wisdom.
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