Don’t give guidance alone –
give confidence too by Chaitanya Charan Das Based on Bhagavad Gita Chapter 06
When we practice spiritual
life for some time, younger practitioners may come to us for guidance in
tackling problems such as the uncontrolled mind.
The mind is an ever-present
problem that stymies seekers throughout history, as can be inferred from
Arjuna’s raising this very problem in the Bhagavad-gita (06.33-34). Krishna’s
response is instructive: he first agrees unreservedly that controlling the mind
is a formidable challenge (06.35), then gently assures that the formidable is
nonetheless possible by the right process (06.36). Such an initial
acknowledgment by the mentor of the gravity of the mentee’s problem helps open
the latter’s head and heart for subsequently receiving the solution.
Though getting timely
reminders of basics can sometimes help practitioners, it can often irritate them
when they are stumbling in their
struggles to apply those very basics.
The solution centers not so
much on removing ignorance as on removing diffidence. The problem is not that
practitioners don’t know what is to be done – the basic principles and practices
are normally reiterated right from the beginning of spiritual life. Though
getting timely reminders of basics can sometimes help practitioners, it can
often irritate them when they are
stumbling in their struggles to apply those very basics. So when they
are being overwhelmed by doubt and diffidence, they need urgently a boost of
confidence: confidence that they can do it.
In the Gita, Krishna
conclusively declares that the best process for mind control is bhakti-yoga,
centered on cultivating his remembrance. And he also assures (18.58) that those
who become conscious of him will cross over all obstacles by his grace. This
assurance applies to the obstacle of the intractable mind too. Drawing on such
assurances, we can share the confidence that Krishna will help us triumph in
the battle for mind control if we just persevere in bhakti faithfully.
When we thus offer not just
guidance but also confidence, our assistance has a greater chance of becoming
transformational, as was Krishna’s assistance for Arjuna.
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