Speak not “to reveal
the truth about others”, but to realize the truth about yourself by ChaitanyaCharan Das Based on Bhagavad Gita Chapter 17
Gossipers often act as if they are doing a valuable social
service by “revealing the truth about others.” However, they frequently don’t
check of the “truth” they are revealing is actually true. Further, their
intention usually is not to help others but to become the center of attention.
Such gossipers end up doing a disservice to everyone – their
object who gets needlessly maligned, their audience who gets misled and they
themselves who lose the trust of others and face an eventual inevitable
backlash.
The Bhagavad-gita (17.15) recommends speech that is not
agitating, but is truthful, pleasant and beneficial – essentially the
antithesis of gossip. Anticipating that such positive speech may be difficult,
the Gita deems it a verbal austerity. This implies that even if we can’t
control our speech effortlessly, we can still strive for control as a
discipline.
Significantly, the Gita asks for not absolute abnegation of
speech, but its constructive channelization. The same verse concludes by urging
us to regularly recite scripture. The import of this goes beyond memorization
and verbalization to assimilation – speaking on scripture in a way that makes
its essential message more intelligible to others and to us. When we study
scripture and explain it to others, the necessary sustained contact with this
verbal manifestation of the divine purifies us, thereby deepening our
scriptural understanding.
As scripture is essentially a guide to self-realization,
regular scriptural contact propels us on that inner journey, enabling us to
increasingly realize the most important truth about ourselves, the truth about
our identity and destiny: we are eternal souls meant to delight forever in
loving and serving Krishna. The more we realize this truth by using our power
of speech to serve Krishna’s words, the more we relish life’s supreme happiness
– the endless happiness of divine love.
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